Embracing Otherness to Savor the Richness of the Melting Pot:
An Essay on Dispelling Racial Notions for a More Colorblind America

Bea Gyimah

"We must live together as brothers or perish together as fools"
-Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

America, since its establishment, has relied on a distinct conceptual artillery to bestow power upon some and secure control over many. This merciless weapon theoretically continues to kill, steal, and destroy every time two cultures, two beliefs, and two identities cross and refuse to greet, merge, or let the other pass. In the image of a double-edged blade, it has the capacity to not only traumatize the slain, but also gradually penetrate the slayer-Institutionalized Racism. Ultimately, racism is nothing more than a warranty, contract, policy that grants a culture social, economical, and political dominion over its diverse counterparts. Regardless of one's culture, he or she will either hold this sword or feel the painful lashes of it, yet if we as adults are aware of this weapon's existence why then should we contribute to or ignore its reign of social terror?


This wretched practice has burdened the shoulders of our forefathers and still presses upon our backs today. Tragically, racism is like a jagged pebble cast upon a peaceful lake, it spreads and continues to get larger and larger until the entire lake's presence is corrupted by troublesome ripples. As children we all have embodied this altruistic lake, until some incident disrupted our intercultural mechanisms telling us: that we have more differences than similarities, that we should stay with our own kind, that we are either biologically superior/ inferior to the others. As young impressionable minds, we either chose to embrace or confront these notions, but regardless their result, they inevitably molded our relationships with otherness.

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. once said, "The time is always right to do what is right," but very seldom are we willing to question "the reoccurring" derogatory notions and demeaning behavior that continues to threaten our progressing society in the 21st century. It's a constant struggle to reflect a sense of equality in a world that does otherwise, but there have been millions that have intervened against the roaring ripples of racism and have swum through these devouring waves of opposition to make it to the dry lands of emancipation and integration. Yet, a definite sense of cross-cultural equality still hasn't rooted itself upon our shores, which is why the need for social optimists, that seek to challenge and deconstruct the turbulent contents of these waves, are of the essence. To better express my views of racism and the urgency for "eracism," I've chosen literature as my vehicle to depict the devastation of prejudice on both sides and shed light on how to replace intolerant with tolerant behavior for a more colorblind America. Merging my own observations with the works of various multi-cultural writers, I wish to discuss how we all racially, ideologically, and socially can culturally diffuse/cross-pollinate our ethnicities to gain "a long overdue" sense of appreciation for one another.

First, for those that have been slashed by the blades of racism, it epitomizes a ravenous monster that habitually pillages through our country, bearing its vicious claws, seeking to tear down those groups that are easy prey to its insatiable craving to demean, condescend, and belittle. The word racism has, similar to the words nigger, honkey, kike, wetback, or chink, literally dripped blood, hung rope, fueled fire, thrown bricks, spewed spit and shattered countless dreams. For the instigator, these racial slurs may have granted them a sense of power, without realizing these labels only weaken his/her moral disposition to the groups their remarks were directed to, because racism undoubtedly marks the branded without forgetting to leave an imprint on the brander-it hasn't any discretion for either party involved. Viewed as the instigator's clever mechanism for cultural reservation, bigotry leaves them with a label far more damaging than the slurs and behavior they dispense, because their closed mindedness blocks off a chance for he/she to experience fruitful relationships with otherness. Meanwhile for the victim, he/she is emotionally traumatized and will be hesitant to engage with anyone of the instigator's culture- so no one wins. One is left without "going outside the box of otherness" while the other will be frightful "to push the limits of the social envelope" and find someone else to redeem the instigator's ill behavior. I'd like to demonstrate these ideas in what I call my cause/effect formula of racism and eracism:

If you have a prejudiced person (-) interacting (x) with a tolerant person (+) then the outcome (=) will be a (-) negative experience for both parties. However if a positive person (+) interacts (x) with another (+) person then the outcome (=) will be beneficial (+) for both parties. The negativity that blossoms from the failed interaction can be explained by the supremacist paradigms infused into an initially positive mind (+) and thus rendering (=) it to be (-) contaminated. As mathematics goes a (-) (x)( -) equals a (=), but in the real world it only institutionalizes more ignorance.

My formula can be applied to Countee Cullen's, famous Black poet, poem "Incident" that details the harsh duality of racism:

"Once riding in old Baltimore, heart-filled, head filled-with glee, I saw a Baltimorean, kept looking straight at me. Now I was eight and very small, and he was no whit bigger, and so I smiled, but he poked out his tongue, and called me, 'nigger.' I saw the whole of Baltimore from May until December; of all the things that happened there, that's all that I can remember"
(Cullen 398).

The poet (+) engaged (x) with the White child (-) however the poet's friendliness (=) was not reciprocated (-). Unfortunately notions of segregation passed on to the White child have crippled his capacity for social interaction with otherness and left the Black child with a lasting apprehensiveness towards Whiteness-racism works as a double-edged sword ... it literally cuts both the oppressor and the oppressed.

Yet, there is always an optimistic ray of sunshine after the storms of racism have passed. One can eliminate the continuation of the oppressor/oppressed relationship by examining their culture's beliefs of otherness. If an individual's culture has historically played the role of the oppressor, one cannot automatically assume he/she will be welcomed into oppressed cultures.
Social optimists should be aware of the historical and social hurt that has been previously caused by their forefathers, then they can make earnest attempts to right the wrong of the past. They can't afford to alienate themselves from these minority groups as their descendants had previously done. Meanwhile, the oppressed must lay aside the wreckage of the past and be receptive to the majority's "good-willed" advances, since they too cannot afford to alienate themselves. As a member of the latter, often I have misjudged and reiterated the very thing I most despise-blinded ignorance.

For example, my mother was getting her security system installed and I started talking to the installers. I figured I had to enlighten them, since they were severely "Ole boyish." To my surprise, I was the misguided one and after our conversation I was forced to confront my beliefs of the Southern White male. Chris, who was about nineteen, said he had grown up in one of the hearts of Klan country: North Louisiana. Chris said, "My grandparents told me I shouldn't put my lips on the drinking fountain, 'cause Black people also drink there.' But I still drank there, hell we're all the same if you ask me. It's not like your lips are any different than mine, so I just pretended to go along with it while I was living with my grandparents. They don't know any better, they grew up in a different time than ours." I was dumbfounded.

I (the formerly oppressed) had to change my derogatory opinions and perceptions of Southern Whiteness like Chris had to dismiss the unwarranted notions his grandparent taught him of Blackness. The oppressed as well as the oppressor are obligated to empty out the stereotypes and fears engrained into their consciousness about each other's culture to eventually become empty vessels with a desire for diversity instead of uniformity.

Secondly, the biggest mountain we must climb is the rugged path to racial equality. The path is corroded with sharp jagged stones, but it can still be climbed. As tolerant thinkers we must assert ourselves in reaffirming what the Declaration of Independence "supposedly" adheres to that "all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness." Therefore, we must support, uplift, and inspire each other to actively pursue racial tolerance. Our constitution dictates to this equalitarian ideal to everyone, but it still has been relentlessly ignored-which is one of the pivotal factors why racism still exists today. As Dr. King once said, "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere," therefore we can't simply behave as bystanders and only take offense to prejudice when it is directed towards us, all discrimination should be personal. Gloria Anzaldua's, Mexican literary theorist, Borderlands-La Frontera: The New Mestiza lays out a blueprint for racial equality. She calls the multicultural visionary a mestiza/mestizo, because he/she is willing to abandon their own xenophobia to interact with other ethnicities. Anzaldua writes, " It is imperative that Mestizas support each other ... as long as Woman [man] is put down, the Indian and the Black in us all is put down" (2217). We as "mestizas" must be more grounded with pursuits of justice than a fickle bystander that joins a lynching mob or a cop who stands while his fellow officers brutalize a minority. We cannot be passive about our purpose, we must actively pursue it, because these racist institutions all possess one trait: unity in alienating the familiar (minorities) into the unfamiliar.

In order to pursue our passionate yearnings for a more colorblind America, we must first realize the miracle has to start with the way we think and act when encountering otherness. According to Anzaldua, "The future will belong to the mestiza. Because the future depends on the breaking down of paradigms, it depends on the straddling of two or more cultures. By creating a new mythos that is a change in the way we perceive reality, the way we see ourselves and the ways we behave" (2214). We can all be emblems shining through the intolerant darkness, because the veil has been taken off of our eyes striking within us the urge to act against the belief that "this is simply the way things are." Instead, we are pressed to demonstrate "the way things should be." This social movement can be practiced in the simplest and most personal situations with our friendships, loved ones, and associates. Simply by practicing civility to any particular person, outside or inside our culture, we can make what the mainstream deems as impossible ... possible within our own communities.

In my own life I have made friends with individuals from various cultures and religions. Keyon, my close friend from Iran, has been my dearest friend since 5th grade and we both attended college together. After 9/11, our friendship got even closer as I told Keyon I wasn't going to look differently on his Middle Eastern heritage or his Islamic religion, because his uniqueness, like my own, mixes deliciously within America's melting pot. He told me of the confrontations he would have to face towards his faith and culture, yet my tolerance toward him, showed Keyon that not every Christian American was against him-I refused to cast the first stone. On that tragic day in America's history, Keyon and I had practiced intercultural beliefs by changing our preconceived thoughts to collectively discuss and dispel prejudice.

Like Keyon and myself, we as social optimists must see past the physical appearance and judge others not by the assumptions connected to their skin color, but by what really matters: their notable attributes. In the process of building an intercultural element, we must embrace the splendor of our own ethnicity immersed with all the dazzling cultures that envelope it, given that our race is not our biological identity, but a social construct used to identify the various physical characteristics of an individual. Monique Wittig's, feminist theorist, "One is Not Born AWoman," argues that race is just a word used to mark the differences in an individual's appearance; "Race, exactly like sex, is taken as an 'immediate given,' a 'sensible given,' 'physical features,' belonging to a natural order. But what we believe to be a physical and direct perception is only a sophisticated and mythic construction, an 'imaginary foundation' which reinterprets physical features" (2016). I'd like to illustrate an example:

During one semester, I was talking to Angela, a Black friend, about a religion class I had enrolled in. I told her the teacher had a few seats available and that she should try and get in. "How many Black people are in it?" I knew where this was leading, so I said, "A few." "A few, what's your definition of a few, you and me." "No, but does it really matter?" "Yeah it matters. With you I can understand that because it makes no difference, but I feel more comfortable around other Black people, I can't handle that like you can."

To myself I said, "You're in a bad predicament if you can't look past color"-this is one of the stigmas of oppression ... it leaks through to even to our contemporary generation. Regardless, today is a new day and old woes don't permit anyone to spend their life in an exclusive single-colored bubble. If one can't handle being with a few cultures, how can he/she adapt to a world filled with thousands of them? Angela, like many others, has refused to rebel against the boundaries that others have allowed race to confine them in. These repressed individuals must assert themselves by actively abandoning the social constructs engrained in them to segregate themselves from others based on varying physical traits. As free-thinkers, we have already disciplined ourselves to change the negative racial paradigms passed on by our forefathers such as the relentless cliche, "People feel most comfortable around those of the same race."

Closed-minded opinions such as this one, inevitably sum up a reoccurring mental handicap: fear of the unknown or unfamiliar. However, this fear is different from a bone chilling horror movie or bumps in the night; it's a fear rooted in ignorance, a close minded ignorance that does not ask questions or try to entertain the unknown. Deep down in our unconsciousness, we know that we all have more similarities than differences. However, in the consciousness we still make racial barriers. In Sigmund Freud's, renowned psychoanalysis, Uncanny the familiar "is something which is secretly familiar, which has undergone repression and then returned from it, and that everything that is uncanny fulfills this condition" (947). Basically, racism strives because its easier to swallow the guilt of superiority when one is able to label their counterparts with such classifications as good/evil, pretty/ugly, industrious/ lazy and civilized/savage thus segregating the familiar (the universal human condition) into the unfamiliar (distanced human condition). As human beings there shouldn't be any room for the unfamiliar founded by the irrational belief systems of skin color. We all may be a part of different cultures, but that doesn't mean we are a different species from one another! We all have the same desires to enjoy the richness oflife and the bountiful blessings it bestows, however we still deprive others from tasting its luscious fruits by making their culture feel like an unwanted outsider, so that we can distinguish ourselves as the familiar, the norm, and the accepted. Anzaldua writes, "The mestizo strengthens herlhis tolerance for ambiguity. She/he is willing to share, to make himself/herself vulnerable to foreign ways of seeing and thinking. Shelhe surrenders all notions of safety of the familiar" (2216).

Another illustration if you will:

While at the library I was talking to Sabhie, an Indian friend, and we were discussing racism within our own cultures. Sabhie, who prides himself on having a collection of multi-cultural friends, told me that other Indians were looking down on him for having interracial friendships. One day an Indian student confronted Sabhie, because he was talking to a Black girl. He told him, "She is a Black, why are you associating with her so much?" Sabie replied, "Because she is a human being like me."

Sabhie is daring to confront his culture's fears of otherness and push the limits of the social envelope. Similar to Freud's analysis, Sabhie has reconnected his consciousness (familiar) and his unconsciousness (unfamiliar) to obtain a fearless perspective on social interaction with otherness. Sandra Cisceros', Mexican fiction writer, The House on Mango Street addresses this unwarranted xenophobia. Esperanza, a young Mexican girl, talks about those of others races that come into her all Hispanic neighborhood.

"Those who don't know any better come into our neighborhood scared. They think we're dangerous. They think we will attack them with shiny knives. They are stupid people who are lost and got here by mistake. But we aren't afraid ... all brown around, we are safe. But watch us drive into a neighborhood of another color and our knees go shakity-shake and our car windows get rolled up tight and our eyes look straight. Yeah, that is how it goes and goes" (Cisneros, 28).

These fears continue to sharpen racism's double edged sword, since they function in leaving mental lacerations on the part of the group that is being viewed as frightful. Ill-perceived cultures bear the burden of not only respectfully wearing the garments of their culture, but also the irritating wool of stereotypes that have illegitimately been sown within their ethnic fabric-their double consciousness. Referred to in W.E.B. Du Bois' great Black philosopher, The Souls of Black Folk, as "the veil" which serves as a mirror that allows the oppressed to perceive their own identity in relation to the dominant culture's definitions of their people. Du Bois describes the veil/double consciousness as a second sight that is the result of divisions between Whiteness and Blackness, "One ever feels his twonessan American, a Negro; two souls, two thoughts, two un-reconciled strivings; two warrings ideal in one dark body, whose dogged strength alone keeps it from being tom asunder ... He simply wishes to make it possible for a man to be both a Negro and an American, without being cursed and spit upon by his fellows, without having the doors of Opportunity closed roughly in his face (978). Nearly everyday I am aware of my double consciousness, yet while I was jogging with Nga, a Vietnamese friend, I was able to see the stings of racism go deeper than just Black and White:

We were jogging across a lake when we noticed some ducks.

I told her I had always wanted a pet duck, so Nga says, "Hey there is one by those houses, I dare you to try and catch it!" I turned to her with a stern look, "Are you out of your mind, I'm Black! They will think I'm trying to steal it and lock me up underneath the jail."
Nga started laughing and said, "Oh, yeah, well they will think I'm trying to eat it. You know they say Asian will eat anything."

Nga and I are both open-minded individuals seeking diversity; however, each of us still knows the stereotypes our cultures have wrongly been labeled by. Even though we joked around about these racial generalizations, they still remarkably are used to identify our misconstrued cultures. To dissolve these issues, we must confront the oppressor/oppressed roles that have labeled on our cultures, Anzaldua asserts, "To say you're split yourself from minority groups, that you disown us, that your dual consciousness splits off parts of yourself, transferring the "negative" parts onto us where persuasion of minorities, there is a shadow projection ... accept the doppelganger in your psyche. By taking back your collective shadow the intercultural split will heal (2219).

Lastly in hopes of making our intercultural beliefs obtainable, we must unite together for something that is greater than ourselves, but weak enough to need our faith to function. As social optimists we have to believe racial tolerance is possible and that nothing including culture, dialect, religion, gender, or sexuality will defeat its purpose. Only once in my life was I able to experience this Utopian society take flight, it occurred while I was in high school. Luckily I attended a school that encompassed several different fascinating and intriguing cultures. As we all enjoyed each other's company, we proved that race was nothing more than a difference in skin color and could not stop us from making meaningful relationships. There was Phi (Vietnamese/Buddhist), Sailatha (Indian/Hindu), Sandra (African/Christian), Stephanie (White/ Catholic), Jay (West Indian/Christian), Chris (White/Jehovah Witness), Devannon (Black/Baptist) Shelezza (South American/Hindu) and Rachel (White/Jewish).

Our friendships made me wonder, "Was this the way life was always supposed to be?" Even though my friends were of different cultures and faiths, we never joined together to battle over what culture could out "race" the other. The bonds we made crossed racial barriers and resonated the prophesy of Dr. Martin Luther's Kings Jr's "I Have A Dream" speech:

"I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character ... when all God's children, Black men and White men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, 'Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!" (King 252).

My friends and I brought Dr. King's words into a living reality, but it is now up to us to continue this legacy. Before we can change the outside world, we must initially change our cultural belief systems and social interactions with otherness. Although changing our preconceived thoughts and those of others is a cumbersome process, the ends will greatly justify our means to demystify racial notions. For without such ideals like striving for equality and being receptive towards otherness, our efforts will be of no avail. As Anzaldua says, "The struggle has always been inner, and played out in the outer terrains.

Awareness of our situation must come before inner changes, which in turn comes before changes in society. Nothing happens in the "real" world unless it first happens in the images in our heads." (2220).

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Bea Gyimah resides in Baton Rouge, LA.